Here are 10 steps to stop bullying or to stop being a bully:

1) Pay attention

2) Don’t ignore it

3) When you see something — do something

4) Remain calm

5) Deal with students individually

6) Don’t make the students involved apologize and/or shake hands on the spot

7) Hold bystanders accountable

8) Listen and don’t judge

9) Get appropriate professional help

10) Become trained to handle bullying situations